tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post1099377616801659070..comments2023-11-05T05:39:45.583-05:00Comments on Jason. For the love of God.: Hey y'all! Two things.That Chick Over Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03066031548129806050noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-48278643260072913742008-01-22T19:48:00.000-05:002008-01-22T19:48:00.000-05:00Go ahead and purge:)Go ahead and purge:)EEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15025777317455781050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-16988153424448142312008-01-22T14:29:00.000-05:002008-01-22T14:29:00.000-05:00OK, I know I just got here today, so I really dont...OK, I know I just got here today, so I really dont have a vote, but bring it!Miguelitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10134489935342720776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-11048785288087437122008-01-22T06:41:00.000-05:002008-01-22T06:41:00.000-05:00Bring it on, sister. We're here.Bring it on, sister. We're here.Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10221356946419555274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-69569868693954815612008-01-22T00:09:00.000-05:002008-01-22T00:09:00.000-05:00Share as much or as little as you like. Whatever ...Share as much or as little as you like. Whatever you decide will be perfect.juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03210855142994447866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-31767344815225931592008-01-21T20:19:00.000-05:002008-01-21T20:19:00.000-05:00Do what makes you happy, because we all love you h...Do what makes you happy, because we all love you here no matter what. I'm all for cathartic writing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07384727752948940089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-77822536746172676162008-01-21T19:15:00.000-05:002008-01-21T19:15:00.000-05:00Chick-a-dee,If you think sharing it here will help...Chick-a-dee,<BR/><BR/>If you think sharing it here will help you in some way, you should do it. You know why I think that? Because it won't just help you. It will help other people too. I've told you, but I'm not sure you fully understand, how much your story helped carry me through mine.<BR/><BR/>And if people are negative, well, they don't get it, and they never will.notsosmallfrieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12051201207509926234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-42960240312762317882008-01-21T19:09:00.000-05:002008-01-21T19:09:00.000-05:00. . .all I knows is this. . .my husband sat down a.... . .all I knows is this. . .my husband sat down at dinner tonight (he cooked because of my "tender conditon" and all) (my boob hurts)<BR/><BR/>Anyway, he said, "So. . .that chick is gonna write about her divorce."<BR/><BR/>So, I kinda knew it before I came here. <BR/><BR/>You gotta love news-breaking husbands. Maybe this is what that Channel 10 guy's wife goes through, eh?<BR/><BR/>Love ya, baby!!Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08729503147294461398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-30309944935659884832008-01-21T17:08:00.000-05:002008-01-21T17:08:00.000-05:00what dawn224 said. And you have a Blog PLUS therap...what dawn224 said. And you have a Blog PLUS therapy -- now there's an unbeatable combo.BandKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10111197063546332024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-74298562234724698872008-01-21T16:54:00.000-05:002008-01-21T16:54:00.000-05:00blogs are cheaper than therapy. bring it.blogs are cheaper than therapy. bring it.dawn224https://www.blogger.com/profile/12261307900362127378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-32043299625676957682008-01-21T16:52:00.000-05:002008-01-21T16:52:00.000-05:00My personal opinion? You've been working toward w...My personal opinion? You've been working toward whatever it is you feel the need to talk about for a long time. I think now that you want to talk about it, you're standing on this ledge looking out, afraid of what's going to happen. I think you're ready to make whatever leap this is that you feel you need to make.<BR/><BR/>To me? It feels like this is the natural progression of you, who you are and why you do what you do.<BR/><BR/>But if you're not ready? That's okay. One day you will be. You're working toward that point. I think you need to. I know you need to let it out, whatever it is. There is something keeping your wounds from healing ... <BR/><BR/>Or I could be full of crap and not know what the heck I'm talking about. One of the two.Adventures in Baby Fathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00553006307319314841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-26346532759752824502008-01-21T16:44:00.000-05:002008-01-21T16:44:00.000-05:00Everything you've been through (and you've been th...Everything you've been through (and you've been through a lot)has helped make you into the totally awesome person you are right now.<BR/><BR/>I started my blog, actually my wife started it for me, because my wife suggested I find a way to get things out of my system and help me remember certain things in my past that I had blocked out. She feels the only way I can get over certain things and move forward is to confront those things (by remembering, even if I don't want to), dealing with them, and moving on past them.<BR/><BR/>I hear you Chick, and I am on your team.<BR/><BR/>Blessings.Alpha Dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16073731050596870101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-20723343813006573692008-01-21T16:43:00.000-05:002008-01-21T16:43:00.000-05:00My mom says "The heart does not run on calendar ti...My mom says "The heart does not run on calendar time." And Spark says that writing things through really does help to heal them. So, I vote yes. :-)Sparkling Redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12799366562472325812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-20905546933888501002008-01-21T16:27:00.000-05:002008-01-21T16:27:00.000-05:00I still feel silly for thinking that middle school...I still feel silly for thinking that middle school influenced who I am today. Feeling burdened by events of 10 years ago is surely not easy and I am sure that it has changed you. As long as you are okay with whatever you post on your blog being permanent (in a sense as far as being out there in writing) and do not care who will read it, I say go ahead and let your readers help you share the burden!Jenskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05368202166540468533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-41351300674963992552008-01-21T15:02:00.000-05:002008-01-21T15:02:00.000-05:00You know you can dish to us. And, I'm about to ge...You know you can dish to us. And, I'm about to get some changes, too. It's kinda scary making changes, isn't it?Anglophile Football Fanatichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06802113205530180641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-91028633516229944882008-01-21T14:20:00.000-05:002008-01-21T14:20:00.000-05:00get all that ickiness out in the open! if you writ...get all that ickiness out in the open! if you write it and it seems wrong, there's always a delete button!Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04474928571871603804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-39576894757768280942008-01-21T13:54:00.001-05:002008-01-21T13:54:00.001-05:00If you think you'd be comfortable blogging about i...If you think you'd be comfortable blogging about it, and telling everyone - then do it! But be comfortable with it. We are all here for you, and in the end, it might just make you feel better. <BR/><BR/>And um, what's up with the blog stuff you mention?SJINCOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08145386056147611628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-23474795744269878802008-01-21T13:54:00.000-05:002008-01-21T13:54:00.000-05:00It's your choice Chick. It is your space. Can yo...It's your choice Chick. It is your space. Can you handle putting all that stuff out there for anyone who comes along to read? Really think about it first. <BR/><BR/>I've bared my soul and then some on my blog and from most of my regular readers I got support. There are many others who wrote on message boards that I clearly needed help or that I just needed to move on with my life. No real empathy there. I think I may have turned off some readers that just didn't want the downer too. <BR/><BR/>And I'm sure there were more who read and moved on and never left a comment or a reaction that I could find. I have no way of knowing if my story touched them in any way that was important or if it was all just for me.<BR/><BR/>You have to decide if its something you want to do for yourself, is what I'm trying to say. Because you never know what your readers will think or how they may respond (beyond those regulars that you can count on for support, of course).<BR/><BR/>But if you decide to do it. Know that at least one reader here will read with understanding and empathy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-77522581067369045222008-01-21T12:03:00.000-05:002008-01-21T12:03:00.000-05:00(patting hand) Now, honey, you just let it all out...(patting hand) Now, honey, you just let it all out. And quit scaring your readers like that! <BR/><BR/>I mean, I almost had a heart attack (if I'd been drinking my coffee at the time of reading I'd have spewed all over my monitor, and that would not have been pretty!!) Divorce you mean as in the past, as opposed to divorce in the present? I know you said a year ago you weren't sure but now? You and Jason are okay. Right?<BR/><BR/>But also? If you don't feel comfortable? Don't feel like you have to share. <BR/><BR/>Even though we're dying to know, because well, we're all just a little bit curious. I mean, this blog thing allows us to indulge our voyeuristic tendencies in perfectly legal, non-creepy way.<BR/><BR/>We're here for you honey, if you care to share. We will listen in a totally non-judgemental manner. If you don't share, after that little teaser? Well we may just have to shake you 'til you tell! LOL<BR/><BR/>J/K. We who have given birth always love hearing others' birth stories. Even if they're scary and maybe sad. Obviously they had a good outcome, because you have BoyChild and GirlChild with you, all healthy.BandKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10111197063546332024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-60433166755554137302008-01-21T11:10:00.001-05:002008-01-21T11:10:00.001-05:00Oh lord. You scared me Chick. Number One, wtf is g...Oh lord. You scared me Chick. Number One, wtf is going on with your blog? It's still staying, right? It's not going anywhere is it? Our bloggy-firendship is so young, with so much life left in her! Please don't break up with her now!<BR/><BR/>Number two: You scared me to death. I thought you were going to say that you were divorcing Jason. <BR/><BR/>For the love of God, Chick.<BR/><BR/>You know that we are all here to support you, and care about you. if you want to share that part of yourself, then we are here to listen and care about you.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03760990931331955567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-24763592919632377142008-01-21T11:10:00.000-05:002008-01-21T11:10:00.000-05:00I guess it depends on what you feel the need for.....I guess it depends on what you feel the need for...sharing it could be really cathartic...maybe. I've enjoyed putting past hurts into words, myself...it's weird...it makes them more real on the one hand, but less real in that it puts them firmly in the past. Kind of a surreal experience.Kimberly Vanderhorsthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01653757517652257445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-795363990432053122008-01-21T11:09:00.001-05:002008-01-21T11:09:00.001-05:00I hope that whatever you decide to do it helps you...I hope that whatever you decide to do it helps you on your emotional journey. I know that sharing your story really opens you to everyone's opinion but we're all your friends here and we support you so do what's best for you.Alliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08707434221124126774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-84643202090335301152008-01-21T11:09:00.000-05:002008-01-21T11:09:00.000-05:00Just go with your gut on what you share and don't ...Just go with your gut on what you share and don't share.<BR/><BR/>Divorce is ugly - no matter which way it's sliced. A minority manage to sail through it without acrimony, putting the kids first and all that jazz. But? I think most of us experience a lot of pain and upset. And each one of those people deal with that pain and upset in a myriad of ways.<BR/><BR/>It could be inspiring. I mean you've got two great kids now and a lovely husband (even if you sometimes imagine yourself extracting your foot from his arse from time to time).<BR/><BR/>;).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-21631609806814610992008-01-21T11:06:00.000-05:002008-01-21T11:06:00.000-05:00It's your blog....do whatever feels right to you. ...It's your blog....do whatever feels right to you. :)Big Pissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11024226667518288383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-77854153860649443592008-01-21T11:02:00.000-05:002008-01-21T11:02:00.000-05:00If you can't tell us, who can ya tell?If you can't tell us, who can ya tell?AndreAnnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12102680027953333309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-1447712171052033442008-01-21T10:48:00.000-05:002008-01-21T10:48:00.000-05:00Hopefully the blog changes will be good. I was wor...Hopefully the blog changes will be good. <BR/><BR/>I was worried to, at first, that you were talking about divorce as in something going on now. <BR/><BR/>But, now that I read the whole post, you can tell us anything, get it out if it'll make you feel better! :)Dreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00066874727242460917noreply@blogger.com