tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post29214793126702943..comments2023-11-05T05:39:45.583-05:00Comments on Jason. For the love of God.: Destruction.That Chick Over Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03066031548129806050noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-8476906734704140582009-03-18T00:18:00.000-05:002009-03-18T00:18:00.000-05:00I will not give up on him or turn my back if he ne...I will not give up on him or turn my back if he needs me, but I have to wait til he'll let me in because I've tried forcing my way in and it just makes him push against me harder.sinner with a futurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18100580072225918083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-80655594138255919872009-03-18T00:16:00.000-05:002009-03-18T00:16:00.000-05:00Believe me, I know exactly what you are going thro...Believe me, I know exactly what you are going through watching him destroy himself. He seems lower than ever before. Work is not everything and he's filling what little bit of free time he forces in with more unhealthy relationships. I keep waiting for that call from your mom that he's overdone again. I'm praying daily he'll let someone in. It's as if he people who love him the most are the ones he's pushing the hardest away. I've known him to be in a bad place before, but nothing like this. You're not by yourself in worrying about him.sinner with a futurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18100580072225918083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-68706817717159579862009-03-10T23:52:00.000-05:002009-03-10T23:52:00.000-05:00It's very hard to watch someone you care for very ...It's very hard to watch someone you care for very much destroy themselves. You just have to keep the faith. And hope that they realize what they are doing before it's too late.<BR/><BR/>I've been through it. I know...SJINCOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08145386056147611628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-68134996875745130312009-03-10T09:51:00.000-05:002009-03-10T09:51:00.000-05:00I have a VERY self-destructive friend. She is neve...I have a VERY self-destructive friend. She is never happy and for a long time I have tried to pep-talk her into happiness until I was blue in the face. I am starting to give up on the friendship because it is so exhausting, but I am scared to not be there for her...Caseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11024610717170568661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-7805643691090612672009-03-10T07:38:00.000-05:002009-03-10T07:38:00.000-05:00You can't help someone who doesn't want to be help...You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped! If you try to force the help on them, it won't be accepted.<BR/><BR/>You have to let them know that when they decide to turn their life around, you'll be there to support them. But you can't do that for them!<BR/><BR/>Believe me. I know.Patiencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10032185243684487586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-77525761172346812782009-03-09T13:59:00.000-05:002009-03-09T13:59:00.000-05:00I hear you. It is hard. I have been dealing with...I hear you. It is hard. I have been dealing with something similar for a little over a year with a friend. There is nothing you can do when they are blind to their actions. I pray for her, and that is about all I can do.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00249312171218434127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-43641761570718300312009-03-09T13:58:00.000-05:002009-03-09T13:58:00.000-05:00I hear you. It is hard. I have been dealing with...I hear you. It is hard. I have been dealing with something similar for a little over a year with a friend. There is nothing you can do when they are blind to their actions. I pray for her, and that is about all I can do.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00249312171218434127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-29051748913316883682009-03-09T11:08:00.000-05:002009-03-09T11:08:00.000-05:00You could be me talking about my nephew.You could be me talking about my nephew.Bethanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03695662344180959776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-62035121037761321452009-03-09T09:14:00.000-05:002009-03-09T09:14:00.000-05:00I'm experiencing the same thing right now. It suck...I'm experiencing the same thing right now. It sucks, doesn't it?EEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15025777317455781050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-33475282498374221682009-03-09T08:48:00.000-05:002009-03-09T08:48:00.000-05:00I know what you mean, you feel as if your hands ar...I know what you mean, you feel as if your hands are tied. They get offened when you try to help or say anything, Living thru that with a sibling of mine. you have to just set back as hard as that is, and just pray for them. and hope God hears the prayers. I hope your family member soon see the light. Same as I'm hoping mine does.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-38464121344123852302009-03-09T08:31:00.000-05:002009-03-09T08:31:00.000-05:00It's me, isn't it? I destroy my life all.the.time....It's me, isn't it? I destroy my life all.the.time.<BR/><BR/>But if you're talking about that whole soup or salad thing, no worries. I shant regret the Caesar.Supeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07214186465657962678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-85389037097071148842009-03-09T07:52:00.000-05:002009-03-09T07:52:00.000-05:00I'm always sad to see a friend leave my life even ...I'm always sad to see a friend leave my life even though they've had a great impact into it. I feel like part of me also dies a little. And to see friends making bad choices, that hurts especially when you don't know what to do to help them. Hang in there.Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18019560376696661985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-29328276179625188992009-03-08T15:45:00.000-05:002009-03-08T15:45:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry you're watching that happen to someon...I'm so sorry you're watching that happen to someone you love. It's the hardest way to lose a friend, I think.Kimberly Vanderhorsthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01653757517652257445noreply@blogger.com