tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post6960218875619340708..comments2023-11-05T05:39:45.583-05:00Comments on Jason. For the love of God.: How are you at forgiveness?That Chick Over Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03066031548129806050noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-18952173220033535242007-02-20T11:27:00.000-05:002007-02-20T11:27:00.000-05:00Jason - For the Love of God....Four-year-old Jason...Jason - For the Love of God....<BR/><BR/>Four-year-old Jason was visiting his grandparents. Grandpa was in his study intently reading. Jason walked in carrying a peach, said something Grandpa didn't catch, and handed the peach to him. Thinking his wife had sent him a snack, Grandpa took it and ate it. Just as he swallowed the last bite, Jason, with lip quivering, said, "But, Pap, I didn't want you to eat it. I just wanted you to get the worm out!" <BR/><BR/>(Sorry - but I was in a hury and I put this on the wrong post before. I thought you might like this since you are interested in knowing more about Jason when he was a kid.)Alpha Dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16073731050596870101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-92089808303791562852007-02-19T15:11:00.000-05:002007-02-19T15:11:00.000-05:00I'm sorry you have to go through all this! It's s...I'm sorry you have to go through all this! It's sucks and your right they should be apologetic! It's their loss...but in a way your family's loss too! People can be so mean when they want to be....Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02934698044637715137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-47838779831609237102007-02-19T10:47:00.000-05:002007-02-19T10:47:00.000-05:00I've only just started reading your blog (thanks f...I've only just started reading your blog (thanks for stopping by mine), but I admire your husband for taking a stand against his parents. There are too many mama's boys out there who wouldn't do that. Ya got yourself a man there - not a boy. Good for you!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03284807300435333246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-58377290268617787362007-02-19T09:29:00.000-05:002007-02-19T09:29:00.000-05:00Chick,You have the photos...and even though in Fan...Chick,<BR/><BR/>You have the photos...and even though in Fantasy land they might seem like a "nice gesture" I believe they are nothing more than a "see Jason I'm not ALL that evil that i would pictures to your wife" ploy to get him to open the lines up again.<BR/><BR/>Enjoy the pictures but you can only do that if you don't give the "Rest" of it a 2nd thought.<BR/><BR/>I love you.Brown Eyed Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05588211946379344668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-53716529157586943702007-02-18T17:46:00.000-05:002007-02-18T17:46:00.000-05:00hi chick, i just left comments on your other blog,...hi chick, i just left comments on your other blog, and didn't know there was another one until i saw someone's comment saying so. i left congrats on the other blog, but want to do it here too. CONGRATULATIONS!!! on being ellie's "weekend wink." great honor. i love your blogs, and i'm adding you to my favorites. i've read so many great blogs just thru following links. congrats again!<BR/><BR/>sylviaheiresschildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02769921885594197625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-66167023607365589152007-02-18T14:30:00.000-05:002007-02-18T14:30:00.000-05:00I do not forget or forgive easily. I do hold a gru...I do not forget or forgive easily. I do hold a grudge for a long time. I probably should work on that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-21405718405832740812007-02-18T10:49:00.000-05:002007-02-18T10:49:00.000-05:00Hi! I came across your blog today for the first ti...Hi! I came across your blog today for the first time from Ellie's blog. Congrats on your *weekend wink* I love it. Your blog is so beautiful, I can honestly say it is probably the most beautiful blog I have ever laid eyes on. I'm serious...good job. <BR/><BR/>In response to your post....I completely agree. You remind me of myself in ways. I am usually a forgiving person, but when it comes to my son.....I'm like a roaring lion protecting their young....I know...odd metaphor lol. Is it wrong for a mother who has so much love for their children want other's to have that same love? <BR/><BR/>I couldn't help but feel rage build up inside me when reading this. It really sounds IDENTICAL to the relationship (or lack thereof) I have with my husbands family. He's from MB I'm from NS + after 1 year of being married and living near his family we moved to my hometown and haven't had hardly any contact since. They don't want to have anything to do with Jacob and that really frustrates me and they hate me because they feel that I have taken their son away (not like I took him by force!)and about forgiveness...I have known some people I really disliked but the in-laws, I find they are the hardest people on earth to forgive....there have been countless things just like your example I could write a novel about it. Manipulation is almost worse than blatant in your face loathing. It is good to have the support from your husband...though as much as I love mine, his family has been the source of a lot of our arguments in our house.....Anyway, I could go on and on, but this comment is getting long enough and I am a complete stranger lol. Thanks for sharing. Please pop by my blog some time!Shaniliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12002066262416261682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-66085278560757904322007-02-17T22:08:00.000-05:002007-02-17T22:08:00.000-05:00I LOVEloveLOVE how AlphaDude put it. She's not wo...I LOVEloveLOVE how AlphaDude put it. <BR/><BR/>She's not worth the effort of even trying to analyze her motivations. Just take it at face value - you got the pictures, Everything else gets sifted away. <BR/><BR/>Take a healthy dose of your family (and Ginger the Wonder Dog) and Her Nibs can just pack sand.Gerbilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05483627399876857508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-69420487742802472752007-02-17T21:28:00.000-05:002007-02-17T21:28:00.000-05:00I know what Jason is going through. I know how he...I know what Jason is going through. I know how he feels and I know of the pain he feels each he is reminded of the hurtful things that were said to him and about him (concerning his amazingly wonderful wife and his children).<BR/><BR/>I know how it feels to have the people closest to you, who for most of your life considered you to be their "favorite", refer to you as the only one they could truly trust, who were supposed to love you unconditionally, suddenly turn against you, choose sides against you, believe lies about you that they know couldn't possibly be true (and are NOT). Yeah, I know how he feels.<BR/><BR/>I made a choice too. I moved away too. And, just like Jason, I traded UP.Alpha Dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16073731050596870101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-63206639409610373912007-02-17T21:14:00.000-05:002007-02-17T21:14:00.000-05:00I wish I had something funny or witty to say to ch...I wish I had something funny or witty to say to cheer you up. But, I don't. I just....I'm sorry for you. and your hubby. I am.Dreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00066874727242460917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-12928345816842129862007-02-17T20:10:00.000-05:002007-02-17T20:10:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry you are going through all of this.. I...I'm so sorry you are going through all of this.. I am not great at forgiving so I don't have any wonderful words of wisdom but I can understand how this would be really confusing with the photos and all :(Tonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02281227691142336314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-78964197019443785312007-02-17T18:29:00.000-05:002007-02-17T18:29:00.000-05:00you are forgiving when it comes to yourself... you...you are forgiving when it comes to yourself... you've been treated like crap alot in your life and you move on. you are too dear a person to let the ones that you love and care about be treated that way. that's one of the wonderful things aobut you... how protective of your family you are. Jason is the same way... he couldn't stand the way they treated you and HIS kids... that's why he moved on. He did the right thing.<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. You are too beautiful a person to have this in your life!franniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05563502061531199609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-49903004121990402232007-02-17T16:17:00.000-05:002007-02-17T16:17:00.000-05:00Cod I hate her so much. I hate her so much for bei...Cod I hate her so much. I hate her so much for being able to send something like that.<BR/><BR/>It wasn't a peace offering. It was b.s. like it has always been. A sane person? Maybe peace. That horrid hag? Just crap.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry she is crap and you must compete with crap. Ignore it. She's worth no more than that. Let Jason do what he wants. She mentioned they were 'for' you? Good for her.<BR/><BR/>One day I will find a magic wand and see and my hag in law will disappear to the land of denial together where they can wail and howl about the horror which is the lack of their relationships with their sons due to those evil hag bitches they married.<BR/><BR/>Then you and I can sing ding dong the witch is dead and toast the occasion with virgin pina coladas. xoxo<BR/><BR/>If it makes you feel better that song about open the door get on the floor everybody walk the dinosaur is on tv. Bet you could get real funky to it with the kidfolk and forget that hag even exists. Welcome to 1988.Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12377565556936721269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-9973173128953883622007-02-17T15:25:00.000-05:002007-02-17T15:25:00.000-05:00I wish I had something smart to say. I think if i...I wish I had something smart to say. I think if it were me I would send a letter saying thank you very much for the photos. I don't know what I would say about the letter. It's a hard one when someone doesn't accept your children. It is their loss though. They sound like fantastic kids.Emma in Canadahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17058142553612290594noreply@blogger.com