tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post83913725274007407..comments2023-11-05T05:39:45.583-05:00Comments on Jason. For the love of God.: In whIch I both overshare and whine.That Chick Over Therehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03066031548129806050noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-43017664824951867242008-07-16T12:59:00.000-05:002008-07-16T12:59:00.000-05:00We also don't know how to spell THEIR'S.This post ...We also don't know how to spell <B>THEIR'S</B>.<BR/><BR/>This post made me cry. You and Jason are so lucky to have what you have and even more amazing is that you both realize it.Rachel (Crazy-Is)https://www.blogger.com/profile/05786360241354496729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-3552301949766824992008-07-07T23:09:00.000-05:002008-07-07T23:09:00.000-05:00What's important in this post and in that time was...What's important in this post and in that time was your evening with Jason's grandma. The rest is sad, desperate people trying to pretend they're in charge.<BR/><BR/>Everyone knows The Lady in Her Underwear is NOT in charge.Jocelynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03227519811818290510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-15068062241818412422008-07-07T21:46:00.000-05:002008-07-07T21:46:00.000-05:00If his sister did say to only meet with him, and n...If his sister did say to only meet with him, and not your family, then he made the right choice by deleting the message.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-10296777203262011632008-07-07T17:20:00.000-05:002008-07-07T17:20:00.000-05:00Ummmm did it occur to you that maybe they hate you...Ummmm did it occur to you that maybe they hate you for a reason? They might hate you because you are a bitch to them. Did ya ever think about that????????<BR/><BR/>There are 2 sides to every story and we don't get to hear theres!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-47231125320319990762008-07-07T16:24:00.000-05:002008-07-07T16:24:00.000-05:00My mother in law is the same way. But she calls th...My mother in law is the same way. But she calls the house and FREAKS OUT on me. "I've been trying to call, where have ya'll been...is Tony there? I need to talk to him!" I want to tell her, "BITCH we have been avoiding your crazy self. We screen our calls...when we see it's you, nobody wants to answer, including your 12 year old granddaughter. LUNATIC!!" <BR/><BR/>And ewwwwwww gross on seeing her butt. NASTY.kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17987700142247888708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-40732180207143164372008-07-07T16:23:00.000-05:002008-07-07T16:23:00.000-05:00Good for Jason to stand up for his family! And ho...Good for Jason to stand up for his family! And how horrible for them to be missing out on his wonderful family. Stupid, stupid, stupid.<BR/><BR/>Actually, my mother cut off all contact with her mother & two sisters about two years ago - under entirely different circumstances, but still - they all live within 30 minutes of each other, and have for, like, ever. <BR/><BR/>Initially we pushed for her to resolve differences, thinking she might regret it when her mother, my grandmother, is dead (she's 80 and, as far as I know, quite healthy), she always refused. And now, while she still throws out the odd barb here & there, I think she's actually fine. Sometimes cutting out the negative, family or not, is not necessarily a bad thing. (Hell, she hasn't spoken to her brother in 35 years!!)<BR/><BR/>Yeah... some people's families...!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-57088155186364941622008-07-07T15:32:00.000-05:002008-07-07T15:32:00.000-05:00Do you know what I love about your writing? How yo...Do you know what I love about your writing? How you can make me tear up through the whole post and then with the last line make me burst out laughing. <BR/><BR/>That's a speical talent, my friend.Emma in Canadahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17058142553612290594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-41552783955181463632008-07-07T14:03:00.000-05:002008-07-07T14:03:00.000-05:00I'm totally getting why YOU are Desperately Seekin...I'm totally getting why YOU are Desperately Seeking Sanity's favorite blog.<BR/><BR/>I'm fine with it, as long as I'm in second place.<BR/><BR/>You're GOOD, girl.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-69051043825731109312008-07-07T13:17:00.000-05:002008-07-07T13:17:00.000-05:00How could they not love YOU??? Unreal. Well unha...How could they not love YOU??? Unreal. Well unhappy people are jealous of happy ones. I KNOW. My mom and I are at a breaking point for this very reason.<BR/><BR/>And Jason? F@cking RULES.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-71139678445152845462008-07-07T11:55:00.000-05:002008-07-07T11:55:00.000-05:00Word! Especially about the butt.Word! Especially about the butt.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-9318108416979776122008-07-07T11:48:00.000-05:002008-07-07T11:48:00.000-05:00You totally rock and you are in my prayers.Also, y...You totally rock and you are in my prayers.<BR/><BR/>Also, your husband is amazing!<BR/>Jason is awesome!<BR/><BR/>Blessings.Alpha Dudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16073731050596870101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-33927182333684809412008-07-07T10:12:00.000-05:002008-07-07T10:12:00.000-05:00You know I have exactly the same kind of inlaws. ...You know I have exactly the same kind of inlaws. You also know HP is still struggling to maintain a relationship with them. Which I don't understand and am struggling myself to respect. <BR/><BR/>Jason - I think I love you.CPA Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04061480718263842210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-41756605983013990712008-07-07T09:39:00.000-05:002008-07-07T09:39:00.000-05:00Jason is amazing. To have the strength to tell yo...Jason is amazing. To have the strength to tell you those things. To be your steadfast ally. But it does break my heart, because I know how hard that has to be for him. And for you.Girl from Pennsylvaniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01437221527851673008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-81106197609484596452008-07-07T08:54:00.000-05:002008-07-07T08:54:00.000-05:00Woman, I so needed to read this today. We were in...Woman, I so needed to read this today. We were in the same exact position except for instead of family not accepting me, it's one of my husband's friends who's turned the rest of the friends against me. It's been painful and they've cut us out of their lives, I think they're holding their breath till we get a divorce so they can try to have a relationship with him.<BR/><BR/>Sucks huh?<BR/><BR/>Kudos to Jason...Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18019560376696661985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-44741661568470692432008-07-07T07:55:00.000-05:002008-07-07T07:55:00.000-05:00I'm sorry that you had to endure that. BUT, I'm e...I'm sorry that you had to endure that. BUT, I'm even happier that Jason said what he did. <BR/>What a great husband/father he is.<BR/>Of course, you didn't need me to tell you that.<BR/><BR/>You are one lucky girl.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-54750356878154772832008-07-07T01:39:00.000-05:002008-07-07T01:39:00.000-05:00What a man!!!!!!!What a man!!!!!!!EEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15025777317455781050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-30205963823965644172008-07-07T00:05:00.000-05:002008-07-07T00:05:00.000-05:00Oh my wow, that must have been SO STRESSFUL! But I...Oh my wow, that must have been SO STRESSFUL! But I'm really glad that she didn't see you, and there wasn't yelling. And I'm so proud of Jason. And glad you got to spend time with his grandmother, too. <BR/><BR/>**HUG**Dawn~a~Bonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03579654260254491401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-63278878731599004532008-07-06T22:23:00.000-05:002008-07-06T22:23:00.000-05:00It's her loss, but it sucks for your family to hav...It's her loss, but it sucks for your family to have to deal with it.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00429615013820417474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-23711891128054343312008-07-06T21:59:00.000-05:002008-07-06T21:59:00.000-05:00Oh, Chick! That is just horrible. But? I can hones...Oh, Chick! That is just horrible. But? I can honestly say that never having met you or Jason I would absolutely love the two of you because you are so much like our dear friends Ian and Vonda. Ian's parents don't accept Vonda or her existence as Ian's wife and she is the most pure, wonderful, and beautiful woman I've ever known. His parents have never seen their two granddaughters. Hell, I don't think they even know about the second one. The first one? They had an opportunity to meet last year and didn't do it. They sound just like Jason's mom and sister and Ian has made the same decision as Jason. It's so sad and yet the only people they are hurting is themselves.<BR/><BR/>We'll have to send Ian's parents' names and contact info to Jason's mom. I think they'll get along just beautifully.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry that had to happen but Jason sounds like an incredible man.Coal Miner's Granddaughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14320077738770745217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-15304508190963459052008-07-06T20:19:00.000-05:002008-07-06T20:19:00.000-05:00It sounds like Jason has his priorities right wher...It sounds like Jason has his priorities right where they should be. As for his family it's too bad they can't except his choices and really get to know you. Because if they did they would realize You are awesome! They would realize what they are missing out on. <BR/><BR/>Ass for the mother-in-law's ass..I'm so sorry you had to see that! Hope you can burn that image from your brain!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02934698044637715137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-34319031580927998682008-07-06T18:22:00.000-05:002008-07-06T18:22:00.000-05:00He. Is amazing! They have no idea what they're mis...He. Is amazing! <BR/><BR/>They have no idea what they're missing out on since they've cut all of you from their lives. Really, I only know you from what I've read here as I lurk about. I kind of feel sorry for them actually.<BR/><BR/>(and I'm sorry you had to see your mother in laws butt. lol)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-8799440963993704992008-07-06T14:37:00.000-05:002008-07-06T14:37:00.000-05:00It is wonderful that Jason has you to be happy wit...It is wonderful that Jason has you to be happy with and very sad that his sister and mom are not happy for him. Kudos to Grammas who see past that and love the people who the people they love love. (Did that sentence make sense?) Because, even if it's love by association, you are important to Jason's Grandma because you are important to him.<BR/><BR/>Is picturing your mother-in-laws butt like picturing a crowd to whom you are speaking naked? 'Cuz if so, next time you run into her, you can just be grateful she isn't half naked again. :)Jenskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05368202166540468533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-51080103502303304892008-07-06T14:19:00.000-05:002008-07-06T14:19:00.000-05:00You know they always tell you to picture people in...You know they always tell you to picture people in their underwear to alleviate your fears....or some such. But mom-in-law's butt? Yeah? I wouldn't want to go there.<BR/><BR/>One would think, they would at least be civil for the sake of having their son in their life. But if they are the type of people that will easily cut off their son for no good reason, what can you really expect? It must hurt though.Triciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10715187918892679058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-46152204327253875442008-07-06T13:54:00.000-05:002008-07-06T13:54:00.000-05:00I'm so very proud of you. And, you are so lucky J...I'm so very proud of you. And, you are so lucky Jason thinks that clearly and rationally. It's wonderful.Anglophile Football Fanatichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06802113205530180641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37540506.post-67846209697448844342008-07-06T12:54:00.000-05:002008-07-06T12:54:00.000-05:00It never fails to amaze me how families think they...It never fails to amaze me how families think they have the right to control other members of the family. Amanda daybyday up there has it exactly right -- even though you don't care for someone or think someone isn't right for a member of the family, you suck it up and do it "because we love him and don't want to lose him." Amanda, you hit the nail on the head.<BR/><BR/>My two stepdaughters have made <I>terrible</I> choices in men. One is living with a guy who is a high school drop out and can't get a job that pays more than minimum wage. He's moved her back to Kentucky, to Ohio, and back to Calif. We think he's a loser and a flake, but she loves him, and we don't want to lose him, so we suck it up. <BR/><BR/>Oldest stepdaughter married someone who is about as poor white trash as you can get. He works fast food and doesn't appear to have any ambition to get any other job. His family is very dysfunctional. They all came to the wedding (at the justice of the peace at the courthouse) in jeans -- JEANS for God's sake -- and I don't think that they have a full set of teeth between them! His dad lives with them, his dad's ex-girlfriend still lives with them after they broke up, my youngest stepdaughter and her b/f now lives with them -- plus my stepdaughter, her husband, her little boy and she's pregnant. All in a 2-bedroom, one bathroom house. Yeah. And if you kept count? That's 7 people that live there. <BR/><BR/>We grit our teeth and and just accept them the way they are and as long as they are happy? We don't say anything. Why? Because we love them and don't want to lose them.<BR/><BR/>Clearly Jason's family doesn't have that clarity of thinking. To their loss.BandKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10111197063546332024noreply@blogger.com