When someone tells you something awful...is it because they want you to know or because THEY want to tell it?
I mean something truly awful. Like confessing to an affair or something. If you are never really going to find out, and there is no way you will ever find out, do they tell you just because they want to unburden their soul or because they feel guilty or because it's really something you need to know?
Moreover, is that something you really need to know?
Would YOU want to know?